third time's a charm.

I think I've finally decided on a look for my blog. It's simple, clean, sleek and even chic if I do say so myself. I've also decided to take this little baby in a new direction (hence the blog's new description). Don't worry, friends. You don't have to be single to enjoy what I have to share. Hell, you don't even have to be a girl.

I am realizing a lot of us are in the same boat right now, floating across Single Sea. Some of us are grabbing a hold of the sails and taking control and others are wishing the stupid boat would capsize. Either way, being on this boat does not have to feel like you are caught in the perfect storm.

We all have days where all you want to do is eat carbs in your sweatpants and watch Bridgette Jones' Diary until the DVD is scratched and this is perfectly acceptable to do. A FEW TIMES! You don't want to end up like my room mate Sophomore year in college, bless her heart, sprawled out on the couch day after day (not showering), watching Grey's Anatomy until 3am when she would finally get up enough strength to stumble to the kitchen and eat a pickle out of a bag. And after all that, the ex she was so hung up on is now engaged to someone else. What a waste of time.

Don't become the stinky, pickle eating room mate. It's ok to be sad about a relationship ending but don't wait around mourning the life you thought you were going to have when the one you CAN have is waiting for you.

That is what this blog is about. Appreciating the small things, living life and navigating the boat you're in with out throwing yourself overboard.