Dating is not the same thing as being in a relationship.
When did guys start to think that it's acceptable to take you on one date (or not even- remember, watching a Falcons game at his apartment is not a date) and treat you like their girlfriend? I think it has something to do with the constant communication. With texing, G-chat, Facebook and Twitter you can have tabs on someone all day long. Because people can learn things about you so easily they get comfortable too quickly and forget that they are supposed to still be getting to know you. The line between dating and a relationship becomes blurred.
Where's the excitement? We always say we don't like to play games but let's face it- we all love a good chase. Leave some mystery. Don't be in constant contact. Get to know each other before you get in a routine (nice word for "rut"). This goes for people in relationships too!
Ladies, it is not a sin to date or talk to more than one guy at a time IF it's just going to dinner or hanging out and then retiring to your respective beds. I can guarantee you wouldn't commit to buying the first dress you try on so why would you commit after just one date with just one guy? You'll probably end up wanting to return him...
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